I think my engine is on its last legs

Whilst going to work this morning, the van got a bit hot.
At lunch time, i filled the rad up with a fair bit of water and topped the expansion botte up to 1/2, approx 1-1.5ltr all together
i then drove into town about a 3 mile round trip
when i came back, the level had dropped, so i poured all of the expansion bottle into the rad to see how much i'd lost. it filled the rad, so 1/2 my expansion bottle has vanished.
it does not seem to be leaking onto the road
the big problem.....
when i went to start my van to come home, it wouldnt turn. my boss suggests hydraulic lock. when the piston(s) fill up with water which prevent it from turning.
the water level had dropped again.
as the van has been a bit temprimental in the cold, i connected the jump leads, and it started after 2-3 tries.
when it started, the level in the rad went up again, but my expansion bottle needed topping up again.
i then drove home 11 mile, with no problems. but on idle, it splutters a fair bit
there is a small amount of yellow stuff under the oi cap, but it is due an oil change.
Suggestions PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!